Excerpt from Emotional Abundance: Become Empowered
Chapter 9: Abundance
Excerpt: Page 214 (Line 32) through Page 215 (Line 13)
After my first painful break-up, I beat myself up for the
mistakes I believed I made. I took from that experience that
I was a bad person. These feelings made me determined to
prove what a good partner I could be in a relationship.
The problem was that in trying to prove that I was good, I believed
that I was not good. Hence, my thoughts of not being
good attracted relationships in which I did not feel good
enough for them. It was not until the pain associated with my
failed engagement that I was able to see how these thoughts
of not being good enough were neither true nor serving me.
By finally recognizing my truth from the pain I experienced,
I owned the woman that I am. Once I did, it took three
weeks and I attracted my soul-mate. I could not have the
relationship that I do now with my husband if it were not for
the past relationships that moved me to own the part of my
womanhood and power that is my truth. In being in my truth,
I attracted beyond what I thought was possible in a mate.